a little something on soulmates

27. května 2016 v 23:51 | Haily |  Deník
Do we find soulmates in our friends?

I've never had that special connection to any of my love interests, but some of my friends get me on so many levels, that I just probably don't care anymore. About that special someone, that soulmate for life, the other half. And not just because I am whole and there is not a piece missing. Because I have many things to improve and it always could be better, but I just guess I found my inner balance through the amazing people surrounding me.

I'm not dismissing the idea of, you know, the One. I do believe in that click, when you just know. When you just know, that this person will held such importance in your life, that this person will have a huge impact on your life choices, that you will always value their opinions and share all your fears and dreams with at 4 in the morning after having way too many giggle fits.

But I'm yet to find a love interest with this special connection. And I won't have it any other way. I'm proud to say that my friends are just as good... if not better. I'm grateful for many things in life, but friendship, companionship, family, these are the ones, I would never let go.

I feel supported. I feel loved. I feel understood. I may put my trust in too many people, I may be clingy sometimes and the others too far away, I have my flaws and so do my friends, but when it comes to true friendship it does not matter. Because some mistakes will be addressed, some will be overlooked, but you won't be alone while sorting them out. Even if you are alone in your room with scary thoughts flowing through your mind, even if you haven't talked to anyone in days, just the knowledge that there are people, who you can lean on, who will listen, that makes life so much more worth it.

Do we find soulmates in our friends? Yes, we do. We damn well do.

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